Abstract
This study investigates the phenomenon of relationship abandonment, where one partner leaves the other without solid reasons. Employing a case study approach, this research examines five real-life cases to uncover the tactics used by the departing partners and explore the multifaceted victimization experienced by those abandoned. Data were collected through in-depth interviews, surveys, and document analysis, focusing on the emotional, physical, and financial impacts on the remaining partner. The findings reveal various strategies of abandonment, including gradual withdrawal, monetary manipulation, and psychological tactics such as gas lighting, blame-shifting, guilt-tripping and emotional detachment. Victims reported experiencing prolonged emotional distress, financial instability, and difficulties in rebuilding their social and personal lives. By presenting real-life cases and analysing their narratives, this study will be the first direct assessment of victimization due to partner abandonment and address the specific needs of individuals at risk of abandonment, thereby reducing the likelihood of subsequent victimization and criminal behaviour. Moreover, the study underscores the necessity of targeted interventions, including counselling services, financial support systems, and legal protections, to aid abandoned individuals in their recovery. The implications of these findings highlight the need for targeted interventions and further research into the long-term psychological effects and coping mechanisms for abandoned partners.
Keywords: Blame-Shifting, Case Study, Gas Lighting, Partner Abandonment, Relationship, Victimization.